
The Butterfly Effect
The butterfly effect is a concept within chaos theory mathematics that means a small change in one state of being can be responsible for big differences in another. The term was coined based on the idea that the wind pushed by a butterfly in one part of the world, could be responsible for starting a hurricane somewhere else. As unlikely as that may be, I’ll explain here how true the concept is within the changes I made to my life – each starting with one small push.

Learning from our parents doesn’t always mean listening to them
If we’re lucky, we get to a point in life where we watch our parents age. Mine, like many, can’t move the way they did when they were younger. In fact, lately it’s clear they can’t move like they did five years ago, or even one year ago. Some of this is due to medical issues beyond their control that would set anyone back. What I’ve learned from this is that things will happen as I get older that might weaken or limit my abilities, but the fitter I am going into it, the better I will be coming out of it.

Call me crazy! An update on my running journey.
I think some people believe I am crazy. I mean, they’ve told me so as recently as this week. I’m not buying it, but for those who want to think so, the topic of this week’s crazy are the two races I ran over the past week or so. Less than 48 hours after arriving home from Antarctica, I ran my first ever half marathon. Then, a week later (this past Sunday), I ran a 10K in 18-degree weather. Ambitious? Yes. Crazy? No.

My journey in Antarctica
Antarctica is one of the most remote and uninhabitable places on Earth. The journey to get there is long and unpredictable, particularly as one must cross the dreaded Drake Passage to reach the continent. But even if one makes it through, there’s no guarantee of what will happen once you get there. Actually, there is one guarantee that our expedition leader, Neil, gave us at the start of our trip . . . “It will not go according to plan.” All of this feels like a microcosm of my journey and a perfect setting to appreciate where I am on it today — especially as this destination did not seem possible for my body, mind, or fitness just ten years ago.

Man plans. God laughs.
Having just been caught in the moment of New Year’s and setting our goals for 2025, it’s now time to toss them out the window – if we haven’t already. I mean, seriously, when it is a challenge to even predict a day ahead, how can we possibly predict the year ahead? We can all probably look back to one year ago and see how impossible that is. As the old Yiddish adage goes, “Man Plans. God laughs.”

It’s time to talk about goals . . .
As we enter the New Year, it’s time for my much-anticipated post about goals. I’ve said this many times before, but goals can be dangerous. Of course, it’s often beneficial and productive to aspire. Ambition gives us purpose, and in any journey, purpose is what it’s all about. The danger in goals is not about the possibility of falling short or setting expectations that turn out to be unattainable – in fact, there’s much to learn from that – rather, it’s about making sure that whatever goal I set will truly further what I want to achieve.
First, as I share my thoughts on goals, I understand that goals are personal. This area, more than any other, is one where none of us are the same and the differences in our lives matter the most when looking ahead to what we want to achieve. But there is an underlying concept that all of us can benefit from when setting goals in our lives – focus them on the process, not the outcome.

Burnout
I’m not writing a blog this week. It’s ok.
I’m burnt out. It’s ok.
I burned the candle at every end. It’s ok.
The only rule for this blog as it relates to my life is that it cannot get in the way of work. At times, it does interfere with other aspects of my life whether fitness, family, or friends, and the key is balancing those sacrifices. This week, the blog is the sacrifice. It’s ok.
Today, not writing a blog is winning the day, as was sharing this short blog!

My 2024 Running Journey - A shattered dream turned into a brewing reality
Dreams may feel shattered in the moment, but belief can make them happen in the long run.

Legally Fit — Finding My Passion Project
Full disclosure . . . Legally Fit did not begin because I wanted to share my story. In fact, I never wanted to do that. Looking back on where I let my body get to was not something I enjoyed thinking about, and I rarely if ever spent time reflecting on it. Those were not my happiest times, and even now as I write about my story here each week, reliving many of those moments brings back memories of embarrassment and shame.
The blog began simply because of my passion for fitness. That’s what I wanted to share. Over the past 11 years on this journey, I’ve learned so much while taking on many new activities and challenges, and I love everything about it. But given that I am not a certified personal trainer or a professional athlete, I realized that the perspective I bring is one that must involve my story. I am a lawyer who has learned the value of incorporating fitness into my busy schedule, and my life was forever changed by that lesson.

The benefits of gratitude – Why giving thanks is important for fitness, health, and life.
With Thanksgiving approaching, it occurred to me that one of the themes underlying many of my previous blog posts has been gratitude. At its core, Legally Fit is about my appreciation for this life that has been transformed and saved and giving thanks to those who support my journey along the way. Being grateful motivates me to share my story with the hopes of paying it forward to anyone who might benefit from my experience. Approaching this holiday week, it also made me think about gratitude in another way – specifically, the benefits of being grateful.

Sleep — Listen to your body (Part 4)
With the time change recently falling back and wreaking havoc on people’s internal clocks, this seems like a good time to discuss one of the most important aspects to fitness – sleep. Somewhat symbolic of my own sleep habits, I’ll keep this post shorter than most.
Let’s face it, for many of us, this might be the most difficult of fitness habits to control. Some of the reasons for that are real, others may just be excuses, but I just know that I can’t identify very many successful people who confidently say they often get all the sleep they need.

Let go of people who don’t help you grow
When you’re on a journey – no matter where you are headed – the journey changes you. That’s the point of it. To start in one place and end up somewhere else. Journeys require patience and focus, but in the end, the hope is that they lead to growth. While the results may be unpredictable, the path you take is full of choices that are entirely within your control.

Countdown to running the 2025 New York City Marathon
As of today, there are 361 days until the 2025 TCS New York City Marathon, and I have every intention of running in it next year. As I write those words, I can’t help but think about the fact that I’ve said that before – about nine years ago – but I failed to do it. So naturally, as I start the countdown to 2025, I say with some level of caution, “next year will be different.”

“Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard”
Mapping the human genome was one of the greatest scientific achievements in our lifetime. It revolutionized what we know about the human body, and it unlocked the potential for countless discoveries related to our health and well-being. In many ways, our DNA defines who we are, but in so many others, we can all make sure it doesn’t.

Listen to your body (Part 3) – Lessons I still need to learn about injuries
I alluded to this last week, but I’m currently dealing with an elbow injury that came from overworking it. It’s not serious, but it is enough to sideline me from many of my favorite activities, and there’s a lesson to be learned here, not about overcoming setbacks, but about avoiding them.

Rock climbing - A journey within my journey
This year, almost out of nowhere, I became a serious outdoor rock climber. My first time ever climbing was Summer of 2023 while on a cruise to Alaska. I signed up for it because it was the most active excursion that day, but I was terrified of it. I didn’t understand anything about it – especially the safety aspects – so I did the bare minimum almost as if I just wanted to be able to say I did it and be done. After all, it was cool just that climbed for the first time at almost 49 years old, and I could check it off my “do something scary” list.
But something nagged at me afterwards. I began to wonder how much I held back and whether rock climbing was really something I could do. Or did I just want the photo? Perhaps if I understood how it worked – the belay, the technique, and the repel – I might trust it enough to be able to try harder? Or perhaps the minute I faced the opportunity to do more, I’d panic and be done — but with no regrets? At no point did I ever think that I could fall so in love with the sport that it would change me (and my fitness routines). But that happened – or better yet, it’s happening.

A thank you letter to the trainer who saved my life
Never underestimate the impact that one individual can have on a life. Not just those who are supposed to like a spouse, parent, or child, but someone who enters it as a total stranger in the unlikeliest of circumstances and ends up changing someone’s entire life – or even saving it. For me, one such person was my personal trainer, Paul Diaz.

Work hard, play hard
Finding balance between work and play is important to both my mind and body, but balance does not have to mean sacrificing one for the other. I’ve found over the years that the harder I go at one, the harder I can go at the other. And of course, the driving force that allows me to do it all – and to do it harder – is fitness.

How I make time for fitness
The idea of telling someone else how to fit fitness into their schedule seems a bit preachy to me, and that’s certainly not what I am aiming for here. Everyone is different and there’s no one size fits all answer. But there are some common elements that fit most of our routines that can help work fitness into a busy schedule.

Contrast Therapy — Listen to your body (Part 2)
So much has changed about my routine over the past two years, and the biggest factors driving that change have been due to increased energy and better recovery. Contrast therapy plays a big role in that. Here I will explain both why and how I do it . . . Whether you are a novice at this or you do it regularly, the number one rule is, listen to your body